Your Self-Confidence Coach.
My name is Michelle Grant. I am a transformational self-confidence coach.
Life Coaching to me was not a chosen career path when I started out initially on my journey of self-discovery through the diverse and complex journey of the university of life. I was going through so much turmoil, a broken marriage with all its complexity, deciding which was the best way forward for my daughter and her happiness, my personal isolation from my siblings, the overseas distance of my parents followed by the death of my father, and the healing of my childhood traumas. Due to the combination of events I developed self-confidence and trust issues, I suffered from anxieties that developed into depression.
Then one day I asked myself “What is my purpose in life and why is all this happening to me?” I thought I’m a bright person, I’ve always picked myself up and tried to succeed with any endeavor throughout my career and my life. I have dreams, I’m always wanting the best for others, I’m a kind and caring person, and most of all I really wanted to be a positive role model for my daughter.
Like so many people I went through so many knock backs, and I had so many up’s and downs, there was a point in my life that I did think I couldn’t pick myself up again; I was exhausted most of the time, I walked in directions that didn’t make me happy I felt unloved and I kept making bad choices which created a lot of unwelcomed drama in my life, causing a feeling of unfulfillment and a lack of direction which served no purpose for my personal well-being at the time.
Then one day I came across an elderly woman who became like a mother to me, and at least once a week we would engage in one of our many conversational topics where we continued to share our experiences with each other, during a moment I decided to read one of my poems to her. She became overwhelmed, her eyes were filled with tears and joy at the same time, she smiled, then she asked. “Do you have any more you can read to me.” I replied “Yes I do.” It was over a couple of weeks I remember clearly that I was able to share a few more of my written pieces of poetry with her. Then out of the blue she suggested that I should start putting some material together and publish some of my works.
At first I didn’t take her really seriously but I listened to her advice, she was wise and maybe somehow she thought by me doing that, it would be good for me. I started to collate some of my material that I wanted to share with others, while the rest of the words just started to flow once I put my mind to it and had the intention to complete it. I found writing very helpful for me in so many ways but the perception for me was just to get all my feelings out on paper and read it back to myself to experience and give me a fair idea of how far I had come along. I thought her suggestion were both brilliant and wise!
Initially my intention for writing was to heal myself from the pains of my past life traumas and I used short stories and poetry to express how I was feeling. Writing in this style made things less intrusive for me. However instead I ended up publishing a book called “Embracing My Path.” which was written and used as a tool and a guide to help others to look within themselves and apply a fresh approach to their own lives through the self healing process.
Then all of a sudden my life started to change and I kept meeting some very interesting people along the way, who came into my life for many reasons.
- For me to learn from.
- For me to grow in some way.
- For friendship.
- For me to realize that a connection can transform your life in many ways.
- For me to discover that life is full of possibilities.
All of whom ended up touching my life in so many ways I didn’t recognize this then and life became very overwhelming for me once again and I couldn’t handle how fast tracked the whole situation was becoming, the pace and the direction in which my life was going, it was to much to soon and I still had self-trust issues but please believe me when I say it was all positive the problem was, I was operating in a negative mindset. I was unable to see that at the time, I lacked self-trust and it didn’t take me long to reverted back to my old ways and returned back to my self imposed seclusion habits where I felt secure. I missed many opportunities and fell back into the world of employment, at the time this gave me stability and a sense of routine it encased my limiting beliefs and I never had the feeling of contentment.
You see every chapter in your life will help you to form an identity or identify your values and understand your true self-worth. Nothing is by accident! I always felt that whatever I did just wasn’t enough and I used to beat myself up about it all the time and then doubt would set in and I would question myself. However through the many mistakes in my life, and the ups and downs on my journey I discovered the importance of overcoming my own self-doubts and improve upon my own self-esteem, this enabled me to grow step by step along the way teaching me to walk with the journey in order to build my self-confidence.
The decision to become a coach was the best decision I made in my life the action I needed to take was fuelled by the start of the pandemic this put me back in isolation once again where I finally had the opportunity to breath and align myself to new possibilities. I made a decision to invest in my studies and I gained two accredited CPD qualifications in coaching. Now I can say I am extremely happy and very grateful that I took the right steps to make it happen and trusted the flow of the journey to start the beginning of a new chapter.
“Why? I once asked.” I am now here to make you become more self-aware, build your self-esteem, guide you to challenge your self-doubts, and trust your inner guide so you can become guardians of your own personal success.
My prescription for you; I will coach you to consciously tune in to your self-awareness so you can adapt to your vision clearly; I will coach you though areas in need of adjustment, and guide you to keep applying those adjustments; I will coach you in the principles of engaging your daily processes with a renewed mind-set, so when you wake up in the morning you are aware of what you see and by the time you leave your home, you will be able to recognise your full potential and realise that life is full of probabilities.
I believe self-confidence as stated “is defined as a quality or state of being certain.” And you need to be certain about your abilities, your qualities, and your discernment. Being confidently you makes you attractive, self-confidence gets you hired for your desired job, self-confidence helps you aim for the things you can only dream about, self-confidence helps you make the right decisions, self-confidence makes you productive and if you want to be successful, you need to develop your self-confidence because real self-confidence comes from your own self-awareness.
“Be your own master builder; “Keep evolving with creativity. Be your greatest life’s work with purpose, intention, and wisdom and your life actions will empower you.” Remember to align your energies, raise your vibrations, set your intentions, tune into your higher frequency and speak your positive affirmations from your heart.”
~Michelle H Grant~
Life Changes is founded by Michelle H Grant who is an empath and has learned to cope with her abilities through self-growth, application, and understanding specific techniques to embrace being a highly intuitive person. Due to her experience and ongoing journey to becoming a fully functioning empath, she has sparked the creative abilities that have enriched her well-being, giving her more confidence, focus, and the vision to walk the path towards the journey of entrepreneurship for it is apart of her spiritual nature to nurture a persons natural skills and abilities.
Michelle’s background stems from publishing, media relations, public relations, and events
to recruitment. She is a published author for self-development and has coached many authors to publication through her own book marketing program with a self-publishing house, she is a teacher, she is a motivational speaker, an excellent coach and was a community radio broadcaster whom practised inspiring people from around the world by using her intuitive gift and vibrant personality.
Due to her own accomplishments through a lot of struggle, people have been attracted to her natural intuitive ability for progressive advice and guidance. Her interest to study life coaching is with the desire to guide you to become more self-aware and to understand that it is your own fears and anxieties that is preventing you from self-trusting therefore blocking your true potential. She believes that these three targeted personality groups are one of the same and capable of achieving and fulfilling the desire to live a life of true abundance through the understanding of self.
The business is here to guide you though the transformation process and build your self-confidence by a thought provoking and creative process that inspires you to maximize your personal and professional potential.
Spiritual Guide